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The Open Door
Bethel Presbyterian Church ~ a community of faith, fellowship, study and service ... Seeking God's peace, justice and love ~ |
VOL. 33 NO. 10 Marc Sherrod, Minister October, 2005
E-Mail & On-Line Newsletter
A number of the members have responded regarding saving postage and mailing by reading the newsletter online. If you wish to add your name to that list, call (865-376-6340) or e-mail the church office.
We also maintain a master list of e-mail addresses. Please include yours if you wish.
Open Door Index
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• CARING FOR YOUR PASTOR
• KATRINA LESSONS LEARNED |
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ALINE TERRY TRANSPORTATION FUND
This service is free for friends and members of Bethel. If you have a transportation need, please call the church office at 376-6340. Please be ready to tell us the date and time of your appointment and what time you want to be picked up. Some of the places we transport to are: doctors office, hairdresser, library, post office, grocery store, and shopping. We drive as far as Knoxville. We are open to other suggestions, also.
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For those unable to be present at the September 18, 2005 meeting of the Bethel Presbyterian Church when a recommendation from the Building Proposal Committee was considered by the congregation, I want to provide you with the results of that meeting. As a preliminary matter, the congregation adopted an 80% approval rate of those members of the Active Roll present and voting in order for the motion to be approved. Of our Active Roll membership of 213, 127 (59.6%) were present and voted. The number of “yes” votes was 94 (74%) and the number of “no” votes was 33 (26%), so the motion did not pass. A subsequent motion was approved by vote of the congregation to “continue the Building Fund and the Building Concept and to find a solution that works in a reasonable time.”
In a called meeting of the session September 25, the elders and I responded by developing a process whereby the session and the congregation can continue consideration of Bethel’s building needs. The session reminded ourselves, and we hereby remind the congregation, that our point of departure for addressing building concerns remains our visioning process and the ministry initiatives previously adopted. For the purpose of moving forward to address building needs, we have created four separate Work Teams, each chaired by an elder (additional Work Teams may be added, if necessary, as this process unfolds). The primary purpose of each of these Work Teams is listed below. You may volunteer to serve on one of these teams by contacting the elder chairperson listed. Each Work Team will have no more than five members, including the chairperson.
Our consultant/architect, Mr. Chris Malone, has agreed to continue to guide us in this process. Chris has assured me that he will assist each of these work teams in giving due diligence to their task, and that his purpose will be to resource this process so that each entity can start afresh and bring the very best fruits of their labors to the congregation for the congregation’s consideration. He has agreed to have an initial meeting with all the work teams sometime during the last two weeks of October.
Option A Purpose: to keep the sanctuary in its current location and perform all necessary repairs to address all issues related to safety and accessibility. Chairperson: Frank Harris (539-4779)
Option B Purpose: to relocate the sanctuary over a new basement foundation and connect it to the educational building. This is basically the same as the proposal recently brought to the congregation by the Building Proposal Committee. Chairperson: Laura Dailey (717-0900)
Option C Purpose: to build a new sanctuary on Bethel’s property. Chairperson: Mark Banker (376-2118)
Option D Purpose: to expand Bethel’s sanctuary at its current location. Chairperson: Jane Walsh (376-5250)
Except for Option B, details on these options are intentionally vague at this time in order to allow the work teams freedom to explore as they feel led by God. Once each team has done some initial work and is ready to receive comments, opportunities will be given for you to ask questions and provide feedback on their particular proposal. Please bear in mind that folks on these work teams do not necessarily endorse that particular option, but rather offer their services as a way to seek resolution to Bethel’s building needs.
As their work goes forward, each of these Work Teams will produce and distribute an information sheet that gives details about that particular option. Details will include: the extent to which it helps or hinders Bethel’s vision and ministry initiatives, a drawing of the proposal, the proposal’s pros and cons, and a solid ballpark estimate of cost. I anticipate that the results of the efforts of these work teams will be made available simultaneously, thereby reducing confusion on your part.
At the end of this process of developing and communicating details regarding these various options, the session will call a congregational meeting, perhaps in January or February, 2006. This will be a meeting in the fellowship hall after worship and preceeded by a catered lunch. As a congregation, we will take whatever time is necessary to ask questions and receive comments. At the end of that meeting, each member on the Active Roll who is present will have an opportunity to declare their commitment to one of the options. This process will represent a referendum that the session will use to guide us as we go forward. The session anticipates that this will give us the best building option and enhance harmony in the congregation.
If you have questions about this process as outlined above, please contact me directly. If you wish to submit your name to serve on one of the work teams, contact the elder chairperson directly. And for everyone, please continue to make Bethel’s building needs a matter of regular prayer as we demonstrate the unity of the body of Christ and move into God’s preferred future for our life together in worship and mission.
Please join me in applauding the long hours and hard work rendered by the Building Proposal Committee. Their efforts went well beyond the call of duty, and each person in the church should let them know how much we appreciate what they have done. Members are Nancy King (chair), Gary Griffith, Ken Dungan, Laura Dailey, Dave Nippert, Jim Schall, Joe Coen, Jack McNew, Rebecca Dailey, Marc Sherrod. Our deep thanks also to the Third Century Campaign Cabinet and the phenomenal response made by Bethel’s members and friends who responded, in a relatively brief period of time, with pledges approaching $400,000. Please join me in thanking Frank Harris (chair), Danny Holloway, Steve Jacks, Carolyn McNew (recording secretary), Jim Hines, and myself.
Grace & Peace,
Marc Sherrod
Fall is upon us, and with it, more work to do! Currently, I am in the middle of forming and dispatching Bethel’s disaster work team to southern Alabama. As of this writing we will be staying in Mobile, Alabama about an hour from our work site. We will be housed by the Presbytery (probably in a local church). Right now we have between 8-10 volunteers for our work team. I am coordinating the work and work site through our presbytery’s work team manager, Bert Henson in Little Rock, Arkansas. We will be taking our own supplies and will have to fend for ourselves as far as food. We are looking at leaving on October 9th and coming back October 16th. Please be in prayer for our mission. As we have 3 R.N.’s, one medical technician and 2 physical therapists on our team, we hope to do some medical relief work by checking on parishioners and assessing problems they may be having. We are currently taking up monies for Hurricane Katrina evacuees that are relocating in Tennessee and for our disaster work team. If you would like to give to either of these causes, write your check to Bethel Presbyterian Church, and in the memo space on your check specify which fund you want to contribute to. Thank you for your compassion and, as always-to your health ............... Deb
[A reminder that session meetings are open for members to attend unless the session goes into executive session; the minutes of the session are available, by appointment, for review in the church office]
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At the request of the congregation’s Nominating Committee, the Session has called a congregational meeting immediately after worship in the church sanctuary on October 30, 2005. The purpose of this meeting is twofold: First, for the congregation to hear and act on a recommendation from the Session to reduce the size of Session from 15 to 12 members. Second, to vote on a slate of nominees for the class of 2008 to serve on Session and one trustee for the same class on the Board of Trustees.
Our church will be hosting another Life Line Screening on October 17th for the community and our church. Life Line Screening, endorsed by Saint Thomas Vascular and several local hospitals, will perform four different health screenings using Doppler color flow ultrasound:
- A Stroke/Carotid Artery Screening looks for plaque buildup in the carotid arteries, which can lead to a stroke (up to 75% of all strokes are linked to carotid artery blockage);
- An Abdominal Aortic Aneurysm (AAA) test checks for an aneurysm (enlargement) in the abdominal aorta that could lead to a ruptured aortic artery. The majority of people who have an abdominal aneurysm have no symptoms and the mortality rate for a ruptured AAA is about 80-94% (John Ritter’s case);
- An Ankle Brachial Index (ABI) screens for Peripheral Arterial Disease or PVD in the lower extremities. Peripheral Arterial Disease is a strong predictor for heart disease and the #1 cause of Diabetic amputations; and
- A bone density screening, tests both men and women for the early detection of osteoporosis.
These screenings are completely painless, non-invasive, and typically not part of a routine physical. The cost is $45 each or all four for only $129. Tests using similar equipment in the hospital setting cost about $600-$1,000. Appointments fill up quickly and will start at 9:00 am but you must pre-register by calling the special church registration number of: 1-800- 407-4557. (Please do not use the number on the insert from your local newspaper. That number is for the community) If you are interested, please call today before this event is offered to the community.
Stroke is the third leading cause of death in the United States for men and the second leading cause of death for women. Every 53 seconds, someone has a stroke. It is also the number one reason people are admitted to the nursing home. What most people do not realize is that most strokes (up to 80%) can be prevented. Most people are not afraid of dying; their biggest fear is being confined to a nursing home. Stroke victims account for 50% of nursing home patients……
Please plan to attend a special outdoor Worship service at the John Knox Center on October 16th. There will be activities for the children starting at 9:30 A.M., followed by an 11:00 A.M. outdoor Worship service. Lunch will be served immediately after the service at approximately 12:30 P.M. You can register for this special service by completing a form to be distributed in the Sunday bulletins in early October.
On October 16, Katherine Dungan, daughter of Ken and Margaret Dungan, will be presenting a harp recital. She will be graduating from the University of Michigan in December, and she will play for us her senior recital. A reception and refreshments will follow in the fellowship hall after the recital:
Sunday, October 16, 2005
4:00 5:00 pm
Bethel Presbyterian Church
203 S. Kentucky Street
Kingston, TN
All Are Welcome
This past Sunday, Bethel welcomed our new youth leader, Donnie Nelson. He has met with our youth and they are busy planning their fall meetings. By way of introduction, he sends us this letter:
Hi, I'm Donnie Nelson, your new Youth Minister. I'm glad and excited to be here. At the present time I am finishing up my last semester at East Tennessee State University. My major is Economics and have a business minor. I live in East Knoxville with my mom on the weekends and through the week at ETSU. I also have a sister, brother and law, and nephew in Knoxville.
What I hope to accomplish is to encourage and support the young men and women of Bethel in their pursuit of a deeper relationship with Jesus. I also hope by our fellowship they will go and witness to others in the community.
My plan for the future is to attend seminary next fall. This is a great
opportunity for me. I look forward to meeting church members and also to a great year at Bethel.
Let’s all take the opportunity to welcome Donnie as we meet him, and encourage him as he leads our youth.
Retired Episcopalian Bishop John Shelby Spong will speak at the United Church, Chapel on the Hill, in Oak Ridge on Saturday, November 5, 9:30 a.m. and 1:30 p.m.
Spong is a famous defender of the faith. He was the Bishop of the Episcopal Diocese of Newark for 24 years before his retirement. Some of his best-selling books include "Rescuing the Bible from Fundamentalism, A New Christianity for a New World" and "Here I Stand," a memoir of his journey to the reasoned, loving Christianity he has preached for decades.
He has appeared on "Good Morning, America", "Larry King Live," "Firing Line," etc.
For more information, check the church's web site:
www.discoveret.org/uccoth
The Presbytery's Peacemaking Committee is sending a five-person delegation to AN EDUCATIONAL EVENT IN ISRAEL & PALESTINE, April 25-May 5, 2006.
Although the trip is next spring, the deadline for applications is soon: October 10, 2005. To apply or receive more information about scholarships and travel costs, contact Bill Myers (Wfmyers@comcast.net or 865-584-7429).
This PCUSA trip to the Middle East, sponsored by the Presbyterian
Peacemaking Program, the Office of the Middle East & Europe, and the International Center in Bethlehem, will bring Presbyterian peacemakers to Bethlehem, Jerusalem, and Galilee to experience the region, encounter its people, explore its history and current realities. Participants will meet Palestinian Christians, see the situations facing Palestinians and Israelis, hear from Christian, Muslim, and Jewish leaders, and plan how to work for a just and lasting peace in the Middle East when they return home.
INTERNATIONAL PEACEMAKER, Lei Garcia, will be visiting the Knoxville Area October 8-13, 2005. She is a talented artist, singer, songwriter, and human rights advocate from the Philippines. Opportunities to meet her are at:
• Highland in Maryville, on October 9, 10:30 a.m., morning worship.
• New Providence, Maryville, October 9, 6:00 p.m., potluck and program.
• Maryville College, October 11, 1:15 p.m., weekly worship.
• First Presbyterian Church, Knoxville, October 12, 6:00 p.m., dinner and program.
The book discussion group meets on the last Thursday of each month at 1:30 in the lounge. The book to be discussed in October is 1776 by David McCullough
The CE Committee is looking for help to update our audio-visual equipment. As you know, most “videos” now come in DVD format, and we don’t have a DVD player. If anyone has an extra one, and/or an extra TV set with the appropriate jacks for DVD hookup, we would surely appreciate the donation! Please let Denise Martin, Amber Jacks or Karen Schall know if you can help.
Bethel’s prison ministry volunteer team will be conducting worship at the Morgan County Site at Brush Mountain on Sunday, October 30. If you are a member of the ministry team and would like to attend, please let Karen Schall know before Oct. 23.
Host/Hostess for October Fellowships
Fellowship Sunday, October 9 - Issues Class
Fun Lunch, Tuesday, October 11 - The Tulleys at The Tulleys. We will carpool from Bethel leaving Bethel at 11:45 AM. Bring your favorite dish.
Fellowship Supper, Wednesday, October 18 - Henry and Carolyn Tulley
Trip to the Cumberland County Playhouse
We have cancelled our reservations to see "Ain't Misbehavin'" since only a few folks have signed up for it.
Christmas Caroling
This year, our Christmas Caroling will be on Sunday, December 18. As always, we will have 2 groups leaving Bethel at 4:30 PM. Parish Life will also purchase small poinsettias for everyone on the Caroling lists. Carolers are invited to the Hettrick's for refreshments after caroling! 200 Lake Street, Harriman (Swan Pond).
Christmas Dinner and Party
This year, our Christmas Dinner and Party after the Pageant will be on Wednesday, December 21st, starting at 6:30. Everyone is invited.
The Mission Outreach Committee continues collections of dry dog and cat food for Meals for Muffins and clothing, small household items and toys for Sunset Gap. Several loads have already been taken to Sunset Gap this fall and another load is just about ready. Linda and Frank Jones and Phil and Jane Walsh will continue to get these items to Sunset Gap as long as necessary. Items can be left in the lounge, underneath the sanctuary.
Also: canned goods and non-perishable food items for the Hands of Mercy Food Pantry can be left in the narthex each Sunday. There is also a collection jar for pennies for your 2¢ a meal contributions in the narthex each Sunday.
Children’s Sunday School
As always, our Children’s Sunday School classes offer a variety of exciting learning experiences. Here’s a schedule of what’s happening in the next two months:
October 2: Marilyn Harris wraps up a unit on the Parable of the Sower
October 9: Amber Jacks will lead a session devoted to letter-reading and writing from our children to the children of Grace School in Kenya.
October 16: All classes are invited to take part in the intergenerational activities at Camp John Knox
October 23 through November 20: Teresa Hettrick, Chelsea Richmond and Karen Schall will teach a unit on Moses. We will use drama, storytelling, games, computers and video to learn about Moses’ life from the Plagues in Egypt to the receiving of the Ten Commandments.
November 27 marks the first Sunday of Advent, and we will spend the remainder of the year on a special Advent study.
If you have a child/grandchild/neighbor/friend who is not already attending Sunday School, please join us!
Advent Volunteers Needed!
The Worship Committee needs a lot of volunteers for the Advent season this year. First of all, we need four families to participate in the lighting of the Advent candles during worship services leading up to Christmas. Please contact the Church office at 376-6340 or Bob Jones at 376-4434 if you are willing to help out with this special ceremony.
We also need a multitude of volunteers to contribute to a personalized Advent devotional booklet we plan to prepare for this Advent season. Suggested devotional scripture verses have been assigned for each day through the Advent season leading up to Christmas. We will ask each volunteer to select a day of their choice, then prepare a personal message, of approximately 300 words or less, to share with the congregation in the booklet. The message could be a reflection of the scripture suggested for the chosen day, but it can also be a special Advent memory or other thoughts that would contribute to the devotional purpose of the booklet.
We would also like to illustrate this special Advent devotional booklet with drawings having an Advent theme, so we are asking the youth of the Church to share their artistic talents with the congregation by creating drawings that reflect their thoughts about Advent. Parents and Sunday school teachers, please encourage our youth to sign up and provide illustrations for this special booklet.
The following list of scripture verses will be posted on the bulletin board at the rear of the sanctuary. Please look over the list and sign up in the sanctuary to provide a message for the day of your choice:
Nov 27 Psalms 24, Matthew 25:1-13
Nov 28 Psalms 145, Luke 20:1-8
Nov 29 Psalms 33, Luke 20:9-18
Nov 30 Psalms 147, Luke 20:19-26
Dec 1 Psalms 126, Luke 20:27-40
Dec 2 Psalms 16, Luke 20:41 through 21:4
Dec 3 Psalms 25, Luke 21:5-19
Dec 4 Psalms 150, Luke 7:28-35
Dec 5 Psalms 67, Luke 21:20-28
Dec 6 Psalms 85, Luke 21:29-38
Dec 7 Psalms 50, John 7:53 through 8:11
Dec 8 Psalms 62, Luke 22:1-13
Dec 9 Psalms 148, Luke 22:14-30
Dec 10 Psalms 80, Luke 22:31-38
Dec 11 Psalms 111, John 3:22-30
Dec 12 Psalms 40, 2 Peter 1:1-11, Luke 22:39-53
Dec 13 Psalms 113, 2 Peter 1:12-21, Luke 22:54-69
Dec 14 Psalms 17, 2 Peter 2:1-10a, Mark 1:1-8
Dec 15 Psalms 18:1-20, 2 Peter 2:10b-16, Matthew 3:1-12
Dec 16 Psalms 102, 2 Peter 2:17-22, Matthew 11:2-15
Dec 17 Psalms 90, Jude 17-25, Luke 3:1-9
Dec 18 Psalms 24, John 3:16-21
Dec 19 Psalms 145, John 5:30-47
Dec 20 Psalms 33, Luke 1:5-25
Dec 21 Psalms 147, Luke 1:26-38
Dec 22 Psalms 126 Luke 1:39-48a
Dec 23 Psalms 16, Luke 1:57-66
Dec 24 Psalms 25, Luke 1:67-80
Christmas Eve Psalms 114, Philippians 2:5-11
Christmas Day Psalms 96, 1 John 4:7-16, John 3:31-36
Thank you for helping to make this a very special Advent season
Hear Ye, Hear Ye
The Property and personnel Committee has set October 22 as Fall Clean-up Fix-up Day with November 7 as the rain date. Work will commence around 9 AM and usually we are finished by noon or shortly thereafter-- many hands make quick work! Bring your favorite hand tools for outside work. Plastic bags will be provided. For inside work, the focus will be on the Education Building and specifically the needs that have been identified by the Christian Education Committee. These items are:
1. Mold on the front stairway into the sanctuary.
2. Replace or remove the "circles" with the room numbers on them in the educational building. The room numbers and grades are wrong, and some are illegible.
3. Clean the front area of the fellowship hall. This is the hall/stairway area closest to the lake.
With this info perhaps you can plan ahead for what hand tools will be needed for inside work and perhaps team up with a "buddy" for a specific task.
Mark the date and join us for a little exercise, some fellowship and the satisfaction of making our spot called Bethel just a little better! Thank you for your support.
Changes in Fund Balances
August, 2005
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Undesignated
Bequests,
Memorials
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Beginning Fund Balances, 08/1/05 |
$124,841 |
$154,552 |
$153,276 |
$432,669 |
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Income, July 2005 |
$16,396 |
$1,040 |
$775 |
$18,191 |
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Expenses, July 2005 |
$(15,231) |
$(0) |
$(92) |
$(15,323) |
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Ending Fund Balances, 08/30/05 |
$126,005 |
$155,592 |
$153,939 |
$435,537 |
*Includes New (2nd) Century Fund |
** Includes Reserve Fund of $60,000. |
Available Balance: |
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Undesignated General |
$126,005 |
Undesignated Other |
$155,592 |
Total Undesignated |
$281,597 |
Less required General Fund Reserve |
$(60,000) |
Amount available for general fund |
$221,597 |
youth speak
Published for the Youth of Bethel Presbyterian Church |
October 2005 |
203 S Kentucky Street
Kingston, Tennessee 37763 |
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Web: http://www.bethelpcusa.org |
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I would like to take this time to share with you some of the letters the youth of Bethel received from the youth of Grace School in Limuru, Kenya. Many from Grace School attached their pictures, which made a wonderful connection for our youth, and we in turn sent our photographs with our last mailing.
Many of the Bethel Youth participated in writing letters from Henry Coen to Jeremiah Jacks, including teachers and other adult members of Bethel.
In addition, we would like to invite you to a special Sunday School class on October 9, 2005 as our youth will again write letters, and work on handicrafts to send to the children of Grace School.
This has been a wonderful mission and outreach activity for all involved, as our youth anxiously await return letters, and look forward to making the lives of the Grace School youth a little brighter by their letters, and thoughtful gifts of God’s love.
How are you? My name is Caroline Wangari. I live in Limuru, Kenya.
My school is called Grace School. I like drawing and playing with my doll. I would like to have a friend from Kingston, Tennessee.
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My name is Benjamin Mukabi. I am seven years old. We are five in my family.
I am a Kenyan and we live in Limuru. I like reading storybooks, playing football, singing and skipping. I go to school at Grace P. School.
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How are you? My name is Jane Njeri. I live in Limuru, Kenya. I am eight years old. We are five in our family. My father, my mum, my brother, my sister, and I.
I go to Grace School. I am in class three. I like modelling, colouring, and painting. I like watching Tom and Jerry cartoons. I would like to have a friend from Kingston, Tennessee
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Hallo,
How are you? I hope you are fine.
My name is Jane Njenga. I am the Headteacher of Grace School. I am very grateful that you are interested in our school.
My husbands name is Paul. We have three sons, Amos, Peter (7), and George (5). They are pupils in the school in class five, two, and nursery.
I enjoy reading, singing, going to church, and socializing. I love my teaching career. I teach Kiswahili which is our national language.
Our school is young and growing steadily. We have seen the hand of God working in line with our school motto, which is “EXCELLING BY THE GRACE OF GOD.”
Keep praying for us, and we will do the same here.
God Bless You,
Jane Njenga
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Hello,
My name is Ronald Wandera. I am 11 years old and I live in Limuru, Kenya. I go to Grace P. School. I am in Std. Five. My hobbies are playing football and reading stories.
I am the first born in our family and I have a sister. She is seven. I go to African Church of Kenya. Please send me your photo. I want you to be my friend.
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Memorials received in the month of September for:
Thomas Barber
from Ruth Ann Ludwig, Jack and Sue Muecke, Mac Robbins, Ann Robertson, Doris Ann Parkinson
Joan Thompson
from “The Wednesday Morning Group” (Lockport, NY)
Eleanor McNew
from Oak Ridge National Lab, Jack and Sue Muecke
Peter Roostee
from Jack and Sue Muecke, Jerry and Jenny Morris, Carolyn and Henry Tulley
Joyce Law
from Vernon Law, for kitchen renovation
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Dear friend,
We are deeply grieved by the tragedy of the hurricane Katrina to your people. We have followed the catastrophic news with sorrow and disbelieve. You may have lost a relative or a friend, but we know that you are moaning the loss of your fellow Americans. We are separated by thousands of miles from you, but our love for you prompts us daily to mention your pain to our God, who is the source of all comfort.
Please share with us any personal effects of this tragedy or any thing you deem significant that we can pray for.
We love you.
From our brothers in prison:
We wish to express our appreciation for your support of the Varsity Club at Brushy Mountain. We are gratified by the many services you and the other volunteers provide to the club from time to time. Without your aid some of our projects could not happen. It was good to see you at the banquet to support our organization once again. Thank the many volunteers who provided desserts for the banquet. Those desserts were delicious. Thank you again for all your support.
Sincerely yours,
William Barney, Secretary, The Varsity Club
“To the Glory of God and in Loving Memory of Tom Barber, your gift to the New Building Fund is gratefully accepted by First United Methodist Church, Hendersonville, Tennessee.”
The below article appeared in the June 2005 Presbyterians Today Magazine and was submitted to the "OPEN DOOR" by Cathy McDowell:
SIMPLE STEPS TOWARD A LONG AND HEALTHY PULPIT-PEW RELATIONSHIP
By Carter Shelley and Stephen P. McCutchan
Churches appear to be in a state of massive denial about the stress of the ministry and the human needs of pastors. Too often both ministers and their congregations assume that the pastor has the responsibility to care for others but is somehow immune to the necessity of being cared for.
Understanding the pressures pastors face
Conflicting expectations of the role of the pastor, along with less-than-ideal working conditions, make the ministry less appealing for young people and create disillusionment among those are currently serving. For example:
• The pressure to succeed. Desire for numerical growth may cause a congregation to adopt strategies that run counter to the ideals that originally attracted their pastor to the ministry. He or she may have left seminary feeling called to make a difference in the world and to challenge society like Jesus and the prophets. Yet the desire not to offend any potential or current members often leads to pressure for clergy to limit their community involvement to the most non-controversial of issues.
• The pressure to keep people happy. Pastors spend much of their energy resolving internal disputes and fighting battles that seem relatively petty in the larger scheme of things. After struggling in seminary with cosmic issues related to the meaning of life, they get worn down by small but endless disputes about who has the right to use the church parlor or whether the worship service contains enough “old-time” hymns.
• Financial pressures. The high stress of pastoral ministry is compounded by low salaries and low respect for pastors in today’s society. Pastors can convince themselves that both the stress and the financial shortfall are worth the sacrifice if they know that what they are doing is personally meaningful and respected by others.
• Strain on the family. Financial stresses and severe demands on time can have a significant impact on a pastor’s family. The non-clergy spouse often assumes major responsibility for family maintenance. He/she is expected to absorb the impact of the pastor suddenly being called to attend to another family’s emergency. Most clergy rarely take more than one day off each week, except at vacation time, and cannot look forward to regular weekends off.
• Pastors frequently have trouble being ministered to. Pastors find their identity in addressing the needs of others. They may consider themselves failures in their profession if they have to receive help. It is not unusual for pastors not to avail themselves the vacation, study leave and other benefits offered by their congregations.
What congregations can do
Here are some practical ways church members can reach out in Christian love to their pastor:
• Acknowledge the stress of the profession. The strain of low salaries may be eased if congregations can find small way~ to acknowledge the sacrifice that being made. Avoid getting into demeaning congregational debate] over book allowances or Social Security compensation.
• Support the pastor’s physical well-being. Offer membership to a YMCA or sports club, with the clear expectation that it will be used. Members should be encouraged to invite their pastor to play golf, tennis, or other recreational activities.
• Hold the pastor accountable for taking time off. When church obligations interfere with the day off, find a substitute day. Recognize the need for an extra break at the end of a busy season like Christmas or Easter.
• Offer the pastor an occasional gift certificate or a night out. For young families with children, provide a babysitter. (Also provide child-care when both parents are expected at a church event.) Share season tickets to arts or sports events, or surprise the pastor with a weekend off at a church members’ mountain or beach vacation home. If necessary, a lay member could offer to conduct the worship service.
• Treat families and spouses of clergy with sensitivity. One church honored the pastor’s spouse with a plaque for behind- the-scenes support. But it is just as important to recognize the spouse’s gifts to the church that are unrelated to the fact of being married to a clergyperson. Many spouses feel they never can be their own person in the congregation. They may not be allowed to serve on the session, and they can’t respond as freely as other members when conflicts arise.
• Address the pastor’s spiritual needs. The daily demands of ministry can drain the spiritual well of the most dedicated clergyperson. Some congregations offer their pastor sessions with a counselor or spiritual advisor. One church suggested its pastor take at least one day a month for a personal spiritual retreat at a member’s cabin. Pastors should be encouraged to set aside regular time for prayer and Bible study apart from sermon preparation.
Congregations that are aware of their pastor’s needs will come up with additional ideas. And remember: some pastors may need to be reminded that they are important enough to deserve this kind of support.
This is a really good article by Rick Warren who just returned from the Gulf Coast and something to contemplate as we continue our outreach to the survivors of Katrina and now Rita.
Most of you know Pastor Warren wrote the Purpose Driven Church and the Purpose Driven Life.
Brothers and Sisters in the Mission,
I spent three days this week in areas ravaged by Hurricane Katrina. The physical devastation is even worse than what you see on TV. The sights and sounds and smells are overwhelming.
But what is really painful is the emotional and spiritual toll from the storm. More than a million people lost virtually everything in an instant. Their homes are destroyed. Their jobs are gone. All their possessions are lost. And at least some member of their family is missing or dead. Every single person I talked to had a family member who was missing.
As I saw the sights and talked to the people, God taught me seven lessons:
Those who had the least, lost the most. The majority of the people we met in the stricken areas were the poorest of the poor people who had next to nothing before Katrina took that little bit away. Now they have nothing at all.
Suffering does not discriminate. In a part of the nation where racial tensions still tend to run high, people are reaching out to each other regardless of color. Walls are being broken down by common need. As people work together to help the helpless, barriers are coming down.
Everybody deserves to be treated with dignity. When disaster strikes, it hits everyone. No one who survives wants, needs, or deserves to be looked on as a charity case. The pastor of one church that took in 800 flood survivors announced: “This is now a city, and I’m the mayor. The law of the land is the law of love. That means to put others before yourself.” The result has been stunning, as people learn to love with the heart of Christ. It’s important to realize survivors are not necessarily helpless people; they just need to be shown how to help others and themselves.
There is power in presence. That’s what my wife Kay calls it presence. Jesus accomplished so much with just a word, a look, a touch. We need to be like Jesus. As we arrived in each place, the welcome we received was almost embarrassing even before we’d done anything. It was all about the power of just being there.
Every disaster presents an opportunity for new direction. Every problem has possibility. Every hurt is an opportunity for new ministry. In the greatest hurt is the greatest opportunity for ministry. When an unprecedented disaster occurs, you have an unprecedented opportunity to help people experience the love of God.
The Church is the only network large enough to handle a disaster like this. Media attention has been focused on the thousands of people who have taken refuge in the Astrodome. But more than 150,000 other people are being cared for by churches. There is amazing organization at the local church level. The Purpose Driven network is working.
It’s time for the church to shine. Disaster presents Christians with unprecedented opportunities to mobilize the Church and become the hands and feet of Christ. We need to become audio-visual Christians not just talking about it, but doing it.
I believe that in the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina God has given us an opportunity for what could be the Church’s finest hour. God specializes in bringing good out of bad. He loves to take the broken things in our lives and turn them into something really meaningful. He loves to take our greatest hurt and turn it into our greatest opportunity for ministry. The wonderful truth of the Gospel is that, even in the bad things of the world, God is able to make something good.
Hurricane Katrina was the greatest natural disaster in the history of America. More people have died because of this than died from any natural disaster in American history. Hundreds of thousands of people have lost literally everything they own. More than 1 million people are without a home. And the storm caused more than $100 billion in damage.
How does God bring good out of that?
In every crisis, there is an opportunity for God to show his love. He shows his love by working through his people. A few days ago, when I was at the Astrodome where 20,000 people were lying on cots because they don’t have anywhere else to go, I saw hundreds of volunteers. I saw God everywhere working in the hands and hearts of people.
Do you see what God is doing? Do you realize the opportunity God has given us?
God is using the tragedy of Hurricane Katrina to give the Church an opportunity to be the Church. He is bringing displaced people into our communities people who are homeless and need help and love and care and concern. Their lives have been shaken and they are asking the most important questions of life: Who is my family? What is the meaning and purpose of life? What is church? People are more open to Christ when they are in a tough time than at any other point in their lives.
Jesus told a parable about seed being sown on four kinds of soil. Those four kinds of soil represent four attitudes toward Christ. One of them was hard soil. What turns hard soil into soft soil? Rain. A storm!
In the next 90 days, because of the transition people are going through, more people in this nation are going to be open to talking about spiritual matters about the meaning and purpose of life, about God’s love and forgiveness than at any other time.
These people need something strong and lasting that will give them security and stability. The only way to have security and stability is to put your trust in something that can’t be taken away from you. Everything in this world can be taken away from you: jobs, money, loved ones, health, beauty. The only thing that cannot be taken away is your relationship to Jesus Christ. That is what we need to be sharing with the people who have been displaced by this storm.
Because there are so many displaced people, we have to figure out a way to do something that has never been done before in America. By bringing people to our communities who are under stress and in transition who need to experience the love of God, he is giving us a unique opportunity to be what God intended the Church to be.
It is especially critical that churches everywhere get involved in ministering to families affected by Hurricane Katrina. In about four weeks, most people are going to start forgetting about this crisis. Short-term charities and relief organizations will be gone. There’s only one thing that lasts forever and keeps standing in a community, and that’s the Church. Long after all these others are gone, the Church is still going to be there. We should become the distribution centers, not just caring for the spiritual part of people, but for the physical and emotional as well.
This is a test for our churches. We have been given an incredible responsibility and blessing, and God wants to use us in ways we never thought. Will we respond? Will we do anything about it?
We must be churches that don’t just talk about God’s love, but show it in action. We must treat people the way Jesus treated them, because Jesus said that on Judgment Day, one of the things we are going to be judged for is how we treated other people.
He said: “I was hungry, and you gave me food. I was thirsty, and you gave me something to drink. I was naked, and you clothed me. I was sick and in prison, and you visited me.” The one thing we are going to be judged on is how we cared about people on the margins of society. This is our command, our commitment, and our challenge to figure out the ways that the church can be the church.
I challenge you to think in a whole new way, to set an example, to develop whole new paradigms, to become the Church of the 21st century, for the global glory of God.
Hurricane Katrina and the aftermath could be the Church’s finest hour. We have been given an opportunity to love people the way Jesus loved them. Will you join us in the amazing work of grace God is doing? Will you take advantage of the opportunity God has given your church to bring hope to desperate souls?
IN HEALTH CARE CENTERS
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NAME |
FACILITY |
Ruby Hunter |
Harriman Health Care |
Muriel McKonley
(sister of Jean Young) |
Rae-Ann Nursing Home
(Geneva, Ohio) |
Betty Brown |
Alpharetta Healthcare Center |
Evelyn Waldrup |
Jamestowne |
Anne Smith |
Jamestowne |
Joan Pemberton |
Wellington Place Kingston |
AT HOME
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Doris Barber, Madge Mounger, Ginny Warlick
Justin Winsboro, 3-year-old grandson of Bob and Ella Winsboro, as he undergoes treatment for leukemia
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OUR SERVICEMEN
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Ronnie Phillips
Jimmy Walker
Bob Gaffin
Jason Brown
Geoff Winsbro
Robert Howard (son-in-law of Bill and Bobbie Martin)
Tommy Sandmel
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The members and regularly attending friends of Bethel are assigned to elder care groups. Each month in the newsletter for your prayers, we publish the list of one or more elder care groups. The elder’s name and phone at the top of the list are listed as a reminder of their role in nurturing and supporting those who belong to Bethel. You should feel free to contact your elder or the pastor if you have a particular spiritual need or other matter that needs to be brought to our attention.
(*Non-member ^Shut-in +Inactive)
CAROLYN MCNEW (07)
376-5906
(Jack)
Carter, Wanda
^Cash, Roberta
Evans, Dick & Celia Simon
King, Nancy & Vic
Kornegay, Frank & Janet
+Loden, Jon & Vicki
+Loden, Jonathon
Meers, ^Fred & Willie Mae
^Muecke, Elizabeth
*Nestor, Bill & Sibyl
Sherrod, Caleb
Sherrod, Melanie
Walker, Jim & *Cindy
^*West, Lavergne
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ALF RYBKA (07)
882-8836
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Clouse, Bob & *Emily
^Daniel, Neva
+Gasque, Julia
Hyder, Bram
Hyder, Dan & Debbie
^LeMasters, Jerry
Parkinson, John
Robertson, Anne & James D.
+Scott, Gloria
+Smith, Jane Liggett
Swicegood, Duie
^Waldrup, Evelyn
Wall, Jan
Winsbro, Bob & ^Ella
Wood, David
^Woods, Christine
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Eden Sherrod
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Tom Pickel
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Scott McGill
Jill McMaster
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Caleb Sherrod
Henry Tulley
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